What are the ways we were taught to “be good?”

To be useful. To be palatable. To shrink, perform, produce, and defer — to systems, to men, to the myth of professionalism, to the endless demands of a world built on compliance.

The ferocity of which I am in relationship with myself is where I start to see it clearly. Not just intellectually — but in my body. Where the conditioning lives, and where the unhooking begins.

This is an invitation to gather monthly around one theme — a thread of patriarchal conditioning that most of us have never named out loud. We look at it together, feel into it somatically, and practice orienting toward something different. Toward care. Toward reciprocity. Toward our own pleasure and sovereign knowing as a guide.

This is not therapy. It is not self-help. It is collective deconditioning in the direction of matriarchal values.